Stupid Love Cycle.. Merely a Theory of mine

During the past 2 years, i’ve been thru alot, mainly dealing with men and relationships, I’m trying to convince myself if this one doesnt workout then im going to try to stay single and try to focus on myself. The Stupid Love cycle is a theory of mine of how eveytime someone get into a new realtionship, it is inevitable that ehy will treat the new person differently mainly because of their past. Yesi know eveyone knows this and is sometimes includeds baggage, but how i feel about this is that why does the next person have to suffer because of the last persons mistake. I lost my first love, i decided to leave him because of many reason and i even been in a emotionally abusive relationship which ended with the person trying to kill. Of course he did not succeed because i writing this right now. However with everything i been thru i still dont hold it against the next guy. I try to start brand new, of course i try to learn from my previous mistakes. I know im a sweet person, i try to be kind to everyone and i like showing i care about people, and the last thing i would i am is a pimp. Many have tried to put me in this category, i think this is because they assume every cute girl who is nice has to have something else going on… Why is it so hard to realize and understand that im only talking to one person is that so far fetched??? Sometimes i tell myself i done with dudes treating me this way, and if they want me to be a player then i will and i will treat them how they think im treating them, but the truth is i dont have the heart to. Anywho back to the love cycle, i feel that once a person is hurt or played, they feel as if they can do it to the next person.. what doesnt make sense is that from the start eveyone is looking for that one special person (wifey/ husband material) and they state that they just want to find a good person and that its hard to find. but once they find that one person, they take them for granted and truly dont see what they have in front of them. So now they are left alone and hurt and they decide they do want that person and that they will do better but sadly enough they meet another person who once thought like thme and takes them for granted because of what they have gone thru in their past. Yea i kno it is a little confusing. My guyfriend is a nice guy but not the cutest and he told me that he gives and that he is going to stop being a nice guy and start treating girls bad..Yes i know it is sometimes hard being a nice person and sometimes others dont appreciate you but it is never right to treat others badly, Everyone is different, you never know who you may meet, so you should always be yourself and try to treat people the way you wanted to be treated, you never know when you’ll meet that special person…..

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